Winning a Woman’s Heart by Preloading Her Subconscious

How to Win a Woman’s Heart by Preloading into her Subconscious.

Preloading is a subtle psychological trick being used in a conversation in order to put ideas on someone’s subconscious. It’s one of the tools being used in qualification.  In other words, it’s a seduction tool.  It’s making a woman think the way you want her to.  It’s leading her to come with ideas that actually came from you.  It’s giving her the thought that somebody saw her inner self and she will affirm it.  Most of all, preloading is winning her by putting some ideas to her unconscious.

When to Use Preloading

Actually, you are unaware that you are already using it. You do it every time you talk to a woman and you ask her about her life or just by showing that you care.   You do it when you praise a woman for wearing good clothes or even a good smile.  You are unconscious in using it for it seems to be a part of your day-to-day interaction with people.  But preloading when you are conscious is a different thing for it gives you a great feeling of confidence that could really make you stand out among the rest.

Men are always attracted to beautiful women and so they initiate a conversation with the intention of getting their attention.  However, most of the times, women block the intention by saying that they are already committed or by frankly declaring that they’re not interested.  When this happens and you give up, then you lost the chance of winning her.  Would you allow this to happen when you know that you can still do something to win her back?

Preloading can be done anytime you want.  If you meet a girl and you feel you are interested knowing her more, you can do this qualification tool.  If you already know one and it seems that you have spent so much time winning her, you may preload her to come up with a meaningful conversation that would lead to better understanding of each other.  It’s just making the conversation and the relationship the way you want it to be.

How to Preload

Seducing women intentionally is really a hard thing.  You may be victorious or you may fail in your first try.  The following steps will definitely help you make preloading successful.

•    Act naturally.  The woman should not discover that you have a plan.  You can do this by portraying that you are sincere in your approach.  This way, a rapport could easily be achieved for the woman would feel that it is safe to talk to you.
•    Start the conversation by asking yes or no questions.  If you ask her if she is fond of eating chocolates, then probably you have reached a soft spot in a woman’s heart.  By responding to your question, she is actually giving you a hint that she is ready for a sensible conversation.  Since she’s ready, it’s time to use small qualifiers.  Say something that could make her believe it.  When you say that she is a good conversationalist, then she’ll be one.  Of course she will start portraying the role of a good conversationalist.  She will start bringing you to some interesting topics.  When she starts to open up, then you will feel that you are going into the next level.
•    Intensify the conversation with huge qualifiers and questions that will guide her feelings and her actions.  If you ask her to tell you the thing that could best represent her personality and she gives you a response, then you are actually guiding her behavior on subconscious level.  Whatever she says (although you gave her the hint), she will prove it.
•    Prolong the conversation.  This is to know her more.  To be natural, you can offer her more drinks or a ride to be refreshed.  This way, you can add more qualifiers and questions that will not only reveal her true self to you but more importantly, she will begin to trust you and anything could follow.

Preloading a woman’s subconscious is letting her verbalize and do what you already put in her subconscious.  She doesn’t have the idea that you were guiding her and it will look like the idea comes from her and she will own it.  Got it?  You can actually preload whatever you wish to a woman’s subconscious.  It just takes a little effort in choosing the best word that will best work for the woman.

The fear that preloading would not work exists for in some cases, it really fails.  Failure to effectively preload is due to non-recognition that you are actually in the process of preloading and you was not able to do it right.  The truth is that preloading could be mastered.  A perfect preloading requires practice, a little creativity, and a good amount of sensitivity.

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